December 2025/January 2026
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No one wants to be the early versions of Ebenezer Scrooge or the Grinch over the holiday season. But there is something else about this time of year that makes it the season of giving. As cold(er) air begins moving in and lights start adorning the trees, we tend to become more generous. There are many meaningful ways that we (as attorneys) can give back throughout the year. This type of giving will involve less fanfare and gift wrap but will not trail in impact.
The most obvious way that attorneys give back is through pro bono work. The increasing need for access to justice means the demand for pro bono assistance steadily persists. Whether you assist veterans, flood victims, or children, the difference you make in others’ lives is immeasurable and needed throughout the year.
Although much less obvious, we can give back to our clients. We could not exist as a profession without clients. There are two things that can go a long way in giving back to them. The first is to provide good customer service. This means returning communications promptly, treating them with respect, keeping them informed, and anticipating needs before they arise. The second is putting yourself in their shoes. We tend to forget how daunting it is to the average client when seeking legal services and the toll that it can take on them, especially in litigation. We also tend to forget the economic impact hiring counsel has on the average person. Being empathetic and cost-conscious while providing legal services can help alleviate these impacts.
We can also give back to our colleagues. We can do so professionally by being a welcoming resource to our fellow attorneys. We can answer questions when they arise. We can help develop our junior colleagues and instill confidence in their burgeoning abilities. We can also model professionalism, civility, and other winning habits. Most importantly, we can be mindful when our colleagues exhibit signs of distress and be there when they struggle.
We can also give back to our families and loved ones. The old saying is that the law is a jealous mistress. And in a way it can be. Long hours, travel, and other obligations monopolize our time. While this can be burdensome to us, our families and loved ones also pay a price. They pick up the slack that our absence creates. They support us when we deal with the stress that accompanies the legal profession. In return, we can acknowledge the toll that it takes on them and express our gratitude. We can also dedicate time to spend with them, be present during that time, and make sure that we don’t miss out on the special moments.
Last, but not least, we need to give back to ourselves. This profession exhausts us in many ways. It requires us to sell our most precious commodity (time), for many in increments of one-tenth of an hour. The profession also stretches us, takes us out of our comfort zones, and tests us mentally. Give yourself some grace. We all make mistakes, we all feel similar pressures, and we all have things to learn. Also, don’t forget to take some time for yourself and engage in healthy activities. A simple walk on a beautiful evening can ease your stress and help you put things in perspective.
Happy holidays! Enjoy giving and take care of yourselves.